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The seven conversations most transracial adoptive families never have. Written by a Black adoptee who needed every one of them and spent years waiting for someone to start.
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What your Black child actually hears when you say you don't see the color the whole world keeps showing them.
Read the articleThe conversations happening in your child's classroom that no one is bringing home. What to watch for, and what to do about it.
Read the articleIt is one of the hardest things a parent can hear. Here is what it means, and what your child actually needs from you in that moment.
Read the articleLove is real. And love alone has never been enough to raise a Black child in a white family. Here is what has to go with it.
Read the articleYour child is picking up lessons about race every single day — from the block you live on, the faces they see, the stores you walk into.
Read the articleIt happens earlier than most parents expect. What that moment feels like for your child, and what you can do before it arrives.
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